
DH continues to improve healthwise. Not fast enough to suit him, mind you, but much faster than he was originally expected too. He has developed what alot of times the nurses reffer too as “hospital-itus”, where a patient has been in the hospital a long time and faces the possibility of an even longer stay. I’ll save you from the blow by blow of it all, but suffice it to say that he goes into anger fits and sometimes (well, okay mostly) they are unjustified from anyone else’s viewpoint. {Don’t get me wrong, I do understand where it all comes from….just frequently it’s a bit much to handle!}
Tuesday dh had the first of two plastic surgeries. This one they tacked-down the two deep tissue pockets that had been created when infected/dead tissue had been removed. If he continues to heal at his current/previous rate, and there is no reason to suspect otherwise, he’ll be able to have the skin graft in another 7 to 8 days from today. He is still saying that he wants to come home then, he thinks that the additional time is just the doctors’ and hospital’s way of maxing-out the insurance. It’s actually for physical therapy and making sure that he is healing properly, but ofcourse he knows everything and the rest of us know nothing….MEN!
My parents go on vaccation next week. Yup, they are still going knowing that it will force me to stay home during dh’s next surgery, possibly strand dh at hospital maybe without a ride home when he leaves the hospital, and no they would never even consider leaving if it were my brother and his spouse going threw this! Can you guess, I am just a bit peaved and yes I know alot of folks think I am being selfish…..so frigging what! Anyway, my grandmother (in Texas) goes to her doctor on monday and will see if her doctor will let her travel and stay here for a couple of weeks. If grandma can come she’ll stay at my parents’ home with Erchin so that I can be at hospital with dh.
I am desperate.

